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30 Things Every Woman Should Know By The Time She's Thirty.

I read this book recently and i thought it was quite interesting. Let me share with you.
The title is 30 Things Every Woman Should Know By The Time She's 30 by Pamela Redmond Satran. Before i continue with that book, i should mention that she talks about Maya Angelou's list of 30.
And if you know me that's spectacular because i love Maya Angelou so freaking 
much. i think she was so amazing and wise. Kindly note that i am not yet 30. i have three more years to go.

So i adapted this list for black women from

1. A song that immediately lifts her spirits or takes her back to a special, stress-free time, no matter where she is
For me that song is I will survive by Gloria Gaynor. You know at first i was afraid i was petrified... The minute i hear that song i feel like i hold the world in my palms and it feels amazing. But the icing on the cake is the fact that i had an ex boyfriend who absolutely hated it because whenever he gave me wahala i would just start humming the …

Reading between the lines of what a man says.

Wow! Its been 3 long years since i last posted here. I'm rejuvenating this blog and once again its about my thoughts and opinions about whatever. My safe space to rant or not. Today i think i would do a little piece with respect to relationships.

How to successfully read between the lines of what a man says

1. Do not attach emotions to a man's word.

This means do not get emotionally carried away with the things men say. Come on lets be real. Men know exactly what buttons to push to get certain actions from women. And as a woman myself i know just how easy it is to get carried away by his speech. Always ask yourself : Does he have an ulterior motive with respect to his statements? Is he trying to get into my pants? Is he after my money? What does he stand to gain if i give in to his wishes? Always be suspicious. However, You don't always have to show that you are indeed suspicious.

2. Always listen to a man's eyes more than his mouth!

In other words use your head and not your…